The Oedipus complex ( So why do younger men like older women?)


The Oedipus complex: The Oedipus complex is actually based on Greek mythology and a tragic play by Socrates. The briefest explanation – when a young seeks the love of his mother – but from another woman.  Maybe he looks up to you. Maybe he appreciates your ability to nurture and the wisdom that only time can bring. Not so terrible really. It’s actually flattering to have someone look up to you. One of the best ways to learn life’s lessons is through a mentor and as you play the expert, you can enjoy the companionship of a younger man. 

Or maybe we just like playing with fire.  Carrie and Brian’s Oedipus Complex Story.

She met him one hot summer day. She needed help unloading something from her truck, her best friend had a nephew so she called him to help out. He showed up at the door in a rugged t’shirt , jeans and cowboy boots. He was an attractive witty young man. When he got done unloading the truck She offered him a cold glass of ice tea. They sat down on the porch swing and began to talk. Before it was over they were laughing and talking like old friends. That was the day it began. He kept coming over and before they knew it one night on the porch swing he leaned over, not confident on if she wanted it and he gave her a long passionate kiss. That night was incredible she recalls in her mind. She loved it, he had no expectations of her and she had none of him. This began a three month affair that was awaking her soul again. He could convince her to do anything, She changed her hair which she hadn’t done in maybe 8 years, She wore fitting clothing instead of frumpy, She got a piercing nose to be exact, she just felt alive the woman in her was a wake again. She felt so beautiful and confident. She was a little ashamed that it took this, but she was loving it. She felt as though she had been oppressed and now a new lust for life had been unleashed. This three months would completely change her life. She had just ended a 12 year marriage and  felt as though her life had ended. She didn’t know where to go from that. The fact that she was nearing 40 just added to the state state was in.  Her life was changed in the aspect that she now realized that she was still worthy of love and was desirable and  could be loved. She would now have a new confidence in herself that would stick. Was it because a younger man thought she was sexy? No it was because he allowed her to be just a woman, not a wife, mother, … just a woman who he had no expectations on but just to be with…and love. They were never in love but they were in love with  love in that moment and time.. a time she knows that neither she or him will never forget. She  see’s him from time to time and he tips his hat and smiles, she nods her head and smile. That is all they need from each other now, a memory of a sweet and wonderful time that they shared.  He became a man, and she was revived as a woman.

All fictional including characters.